A baby shower is a very joyous occasion for everyone involved. But for some people who have never had kids before, they may not understand that the mother of the baby is going through some stressful times. Trying to balance her everyday life along with preparing to bring a child into the world can be a difficult transition for some. Writing thoughtful, personal, supportive and encouraging words to them could help relieve some of those stresses, even if it’s just temporary. If you need some ideas on what to write in a baby shower greeting card, check out some great examples below.
• You two have always made such a great couple and now I know you will make a great baby. Happy baby shower and enjoy it as much as you can!
• A baby shower is such a joyous time; not only for you, but for us as your family and friends to celebrate this special moment in your lives!
• We’re all really excited that you’ll soon be new parents. May your baby shine to make your lives brighter and be graceful and lovely like both of you!
• Wishing you a happy and healthy baby and I hope your life only gets better from now on. Happy baby shower and I’m confident that you will be great parents to your child!
• Your life will undoubtedly change within the next few months, but just know that you have the support of family and friends behind you every step of the way!
• I know you will both be great parents and I look forward to seeing your raise your child! I am always here for you if you ever need anything.
• When life gets stressful, just remember that you have each other and the support of family and friends. Let your newborn bring you even closer together as a family!
• Having a baby will be the proudest moment of your lives. Enjoy the moment and look forward to the future you have with your child!
• Wishing you both all the best and we hope that the new baby arrives healthy and happy!
• I know you will always want to be with your child, but if you ever need a break, just let me know!
• Your first few days after you have your baby can be stressful until you get a routine, so call me if you need any advice or just need to talk to someone!
• I hope you get some great items for your baby shower and just remember that everyone that’s present supports you 100% and will always be there for you when you need them.
• We hope everything goes smoothly with the arrival of your new baby. Happy baby shower!!
• I know your child will grow up to be an amazing person! You will be great parents and I wish you nothing but the best at this stage in your life.
• If you ever feel stressed, just remember how blessed you are to be bringing a child into the world that you can nurture and raise as your own. What a beautiful experience!
• Bringing a child into the world is one of the most rewarding moments you will ever experience! You will never forget the feelings you have holding your child for the first time!
• A baby shower can come at a stressful time in your pregnancy, but take a moment to look around the room and see all the support that you have. You aren’t doing this alone!
• While everyone is focused on you at your baby shower, just remember that they are all anxiously awaiting the arrival of your baby just like you.
• Relax and enjoy every moment of every day leading up to the arrival of your new child. It may seem stressful now, but looking back, you will realize that it was all worth it!
• I have never been more proud of you and more confident that you can handle being a mother. Your child will be blessed to have you as a parent to look up to and grow with!
• Enjoy all the gifts and attention that you will receive at your baby shower, but just know that everyone is supporting you long after this day ends!
• You were raised to be such a wonderful lady and I know you will raise your child the same way. Don’t change a thing and the world will be blessed to have your child in it!
What to Include
As the hostess, there are a few things you may want to include in your speech:
• Mention the mother-to-be by name.
• Briefly discuss how you know the guest of honor.
• Offer thanks to any other hostesses of the shower.
• Take a moment to welcome everyone to the event.
Example Speech
Welcome to [name of mother-to-be's] baby shower! I'm so glad you could all come to help us celebrate the arrival of this new little [boy or girl]. I've known [mother-to-be] for [amount of time], ever since [give circumstances of your meeting].
[Mother-to-be] is going to make a fantastic mom. She has the tenderness to care for a newborn, the sense of humor necessary to endure the terrible twos, and the strength to make it through the teen years. What's more, she has great instincts, which will guide her in making choices for her baby, no matter how many sleepless nights she's had.
Thanks again for being here on this special day. Help yourself to some refreshments and a drink, and we'll get started with a few fun shower games.
Speech From the Mom-to-Be
Whether the hostess makes a speech or not, it's perfectly appropriate for the mom-to-be to say a few words of thanks to the guests. If you want to speak at your baby shower, simply let the hostess know ahead of time. Then she can gather everyone to listen when you're ready to stand up.
What to Include
Although there are no requirements about the mom-to-be's speech, you may want to include the following elements:
• Thank the hostess or hostesses for the event.
• Thank the guests for coming and sharing your joy.
• Mention your little one and any details you are willing to reveal, such as the due date, the gender, or the name.
Example Speech
I just wanted to take a moment to thank [hostess] for hosting such a wonderful baby shower to welcome our little one. It means so much to me that all of you were able to come today and celebrate with me. Having a new baby can be really overwhelming, but this event makes me feel so supported and loved.
There are so many great moms here today. I especially admire the parenting skills of [mention a few people by name]. I am glad to have your example as I get ready to parent our little [boy, girl, or baby] in a few [weeks, months]. You can be sure I'll be calling all of you up with questions!
Thanks again for coming today!
Speech to Welcome the New Baby
Anyone at the shower who wishes to be included could give a speech welcoming the new baby. If the mom-to-be or hostess doesn't feel comfortable giving a speech to the crowd, she can assign someone else to give a general speech geared toward the baby.
What to Include
Since you aren't necessarily a family member and may be speaking for the group, these are good elements to include:
• Briefly discuss how you know the new parents-to-be.
• Mention baby's name, astrological sign, or personality traits evidenced by womb activity to make it feel personal.
• Use "We" instead of "I" and make it a welcome message on behalf of the whole group.
Example Speech
If you can hear me in there, [baby's name, little one], we can't wait to welcome you into the world! I'm [your name], and [describe your relationship to baby]. You might not be able to tell, but you are already so loved and admired. We can already tell you're going to be an energetic little [boy or girl] thanks to all those strong kicks your mom has let us feel!
Every person in this room has unique gifts to share with you throughout your life. You will undoubtedly have many unique gifts to impart on us as well. We can't wait to see your beautiful face and hold your tiny hands. Welcome to this world, our family, and your new home with [parent's names]
Speech for the Expectant Mom and Dad
If you're hosting a co-ed or couple shower, make sure to include both the new mom and new dad in at least one speech during the shower. This is a great way for one of the men at the shower to take part in the event.
What to Include
This type of speech can be silly or sentimental, but should probably address:
• Briefly discuss how you know the new parents-to-be.
• Mention both the new mom and dad by name.
• Offer thanks to the shower hosts.
Example Speech
Hi everyone, I'm [name and relationship to parents-to-be]. [New parent's names], having one of something, such as a chocolate, is better than having none. Two things that just can't work without each other, like peanut butter and jelly, make life better. But, groups of things, like a family, you can't live without.
Each of you started out fine on your own, but life got better when you found each other. Now your family group is growing and I'm sure you can't imagine life without your new little bundle of joy. Here's to a lifetime full of happiness for all of you together! And thank you [hosts names] for allowing me the chance to make my life better by sharing this moment with all of you.
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What to Include
Start with an explanation of who you are in relation to the new baby then offer brief congratulations or sentiments including:
• Briefly discuss how you know the parents-to-be.
• Thank the hostess and new mom for letting you be included.
• Express your wishes for the new baby and family.
Example Speech From Sister
As [mom-to-be's name's] sister, I know firsthand what a great mom she will be. Whenever I was hurt or needed a shoulder to cry on, she was there. Whenever I hit developmental milestones that scared me, she told me how to deal. My wish for you, little [baby name] is that I'll be as good of an aunt as your mom was a sister. Thank you for sharing this epic moment of your life with me, sis.
Example Speech From Sister-In-Law
I wasn't lucky enough to be born into [mom-to-be's name's] life like this precious baby will be. But, I can tell you as her sister-in-law that it doesn't matter how you know [mom-to-be's name]. She'll treat you like family either way. Your generous heart and loving spirit are all this baby needs to succeed in life. I may not have been born your sister, but I'm sure glad this little [guy, girl] will be born my [niece, nephew]! I promise to love [him, her] as you have loved me, unconditionally. I truly appreciate the opportunity to share in this glorious time with you.
Example Speech From Grandma-to-Be
On the day you were born, [mom-to-be's first name], I was promoted to the rank of Mom. Not every woman achieves this honor, and I'm glad to have experienced it. Without trying you showed me what love truly looks like. Now, when your baby is born, I'll be promoted again to the highest honor a woman can hope for, Grandma. Thank you for bestowing these honors upon me, I will be forever grateful.
Helpful Tips for Baby Shower Speeches
As you write and deliver your speech, keep the following tips in mind:
• Specific, personal stories are almost always a hit. Talk about the first time you met the mom-to-be or the moment you got that positive pregnancy test. Guests will remember these anecdotes.
• Use appropriate humor to put everyone at ease. Gentle teasing or jokes about baby care can make guests smile.
• Keep your speech short. Limit yourself to a couple of minutes to keep everyone's attention and allow them to enjoy the other parts of the event.
• Point to the future. A baby shower is all about the arrival of a new baby, so mention your hopes and dreams for the mom-to-be or your anticipation about becoming a parent.
• Use feelings in the wording of your speech. Talking about your emotions makes the speech intimate and personal, which is perfect for a baby shower.
Key to a Successful Speech
Because there are no consistent etiquette rules surrounding baby shower speeches, you have complete freedom to write and deliver your speech in any way you like. Ultimately, if you make the hostess or guest of honor feel special and thank the guests for coming, your speech will be a success.
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Addressing Cards
If you are close to the parent(s), take a familiar tone in your card. When in doubt, you can’t go wrong with a formal, traditional greeting like "Dear Lauren" or "To Tara and Kevin." But you can also take cues from your relationship with the parents: if you’re close with the parent or parents, you may opt for something more casual, like "To my baby sis—" or "Hey mama!" X Research source
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Writing to Parents
Not sure whether to include both parents? Refer to the invite. Some baby showers are thrown for just one parent, while others are thrown for the couple. If you’re not sure whether to address your card to one parent or to the happy couple, refer to the invitation: if you were invited by both parents, address your card to both.
If the shower is for both parents, reflect this in your card. Reference their compatibility or their capability to handle the adventure that is parenthood, or talk about how double the parents means double the love for the baby. X Research source
• "Get ready for the adventure of being parents. You two will be great!"
• "Teamwork makes the dream work! Cheers to the parents-to-be."
• "With two amazing parents, your baby already has everything they’ll ever need."
• "Can’t wait to watch the two of you grow into the incredible parenting duo I know you’ll be."
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Humorous
Congratulate the parents-to-be and let them know you're in their corner. Offer your heartfelt encouragement, wax poetic about how excited you are and what a great mother or father the parents-to-be will make, assure them you're there for them, or keep it simple and wish them the best in this next chapter of their lives. X Research source
• "Welcome to the world, baby! We’re so happy to have you here."
• "Your little family is about to get bigger and cuter!"
• "Isn’t it amazing how love keeps growing? Congratulations to your family!"
• "They say it takes a village, and I hope you know we’re your village."
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Religious
If the parents are religious, consider offering spiritual encouragement. You may tell the expecting parents that you are praying for a healthy delivery and a happy baby, or if they are Christian, you might allude to the Bible in your congratulations—for instance, invoke the fruits of the spirit to fill the parents-to-be with spiritual encouragement. X Research source
• "Little one, the Lord has engraved you on the palms of his hands. We welcome you with much love."
• "Children are a gift from God; they are a reward from him. May your new child bring you a lifetime of blessings."
• "Here is to love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, and gentleness. May your home be filled with smiles and laughter with the coming of your new baby."
• "Strength and dignity are your clothing. You laugh at the time to come. Best wishes for a lifetime of happiness, dear baby. God loves you."
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Gender Announcements
Use the sex of the baby as inspiration for your card. You can keep it short and funny with something like, "Oh boy! It’s a boy!" or expound on how the baby’s sex will affect the parents’ or existing children’s lives with something like, "Finally, a sister for your 3 little guys!" If you don’t know the sex or want to keep it gender-neutral, just direct your card to "the baby." X Research source
• "Oh boy! It’s a boy!"
• "Finally, a sister for your 3 little guys!"
• "Little hands, little feet, and a little trouble are all on the way. Congratulations!"
• "May your bundle be showered with everything splendid."
Simple Wishes
Wishing you all the best as you become parents!
Congratulations on this special time in your lives.
So excited for your new little one to arrive!
Congratulations on your little bundle of joy!
Congratulations on your baby!
Funny Wishes
Best of luck on surviving parenthood!
Welcome to the world of poopy diapers and sleepless nights.
Congratulations on adding a tiny new boss to your family.
Hello baby! Goodbye sleep!
Quotes to Use
“A baby is a blessing. A gift from heaven above, a precious little angel to cherish and love.”
“Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.” – Elizabeth Stone
Baby Boy Wishes
Wishing you lots of love and cuddles with your little boy.
Wishing your family lots of joy as you welcome the newest member of your family, a sweet baby boy.
Baby Girl Wishes
Sending our heartfelt congratulations as you become parents to a beautiful little girl.
May she bring you lots of love and laughter! Congrats on your new little girl!
Sugar and spice and everything nice- that’s what your new baby girl will be made of! Congrats on the arrival of your sweet baby girl.
I’m tickled pink for you! Congrats on your new precious baby!
Cute Wishes
May the stars align and your little one have a smooth journey into this world!
Sending you lots of love and cuddles as you prepare for your new bundle of joy.
Wishing your family all the joy in the world with your newest family member.
Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart. Congratulations on your new baby!
Heartfelt Wishes
What a wonderful blessing for you both!
May your little one bring you an abundance of joy.
Abundant blessings to you and your growing family!
Best wishes to you and your new baby!
Religious Wishes
God bless your little one with a lifetime of joy and love.
May your family grow in faith and togetherness as you welcome this special little one.
Wishing you lots of blessings as you embark on the journey of parenting.
Twins and Multiples
Congratulations on becoming twice as blessed.
Wishing you extra strength, love, and joy as you become parents to two little ones.
Sending our warm wishes for a lifetime of love and happiness with your adorable twins/triplets.
Double the love, double the joy – Congratulations on your new family of four!
Having twins is double the trouble, but it’s also double the fun!
Adoption
Celebrating the beautiful addition to your family.
Welcome to your new little one! Wishing you a lifetime of joy, love and happiness.
Congratulation on the special journey you’re embarking on together as a family.
Second and Third Babies
Wishing you lots of joy and love as your family grows with a new addition.
Congratulations on the newest member of your family! May your little one bring lots of happiness to you all.
Sending our love and wishes for a lifetime of joy for your growing family!
Signing the Card
Once you have your card filled out, it’s time to sign the baby shower card!
It’s best to sign off with your name, followed by your wishes for the parents-to-be.
Here are some examples:
With love and joy,
Wishing you all the best,
Sending hugs and blessings,
Best wishes,
Congratulations on your new baby!
Wishing you an easy delivery,
Hugs and kisses!
We can’t wait to meet your little one!
Congrats!
What to Avoid Writing in a Baby Shower Card
While you really can’t go wrong with you baby shower wishes, there are still a few things you might want to avoid writing.
Avoid being too personal and uncomfortable.
Don’t make jokes that could be misconstrued or offensive.
Stay away from cliches and generic phrases like “you’ll be the best parents!” or “can’t wait to see you!”.
Don’t write anything that might embarrass the expecting parents or their family. You never know if the baby shower card message will be read aloud at the baby shower
If you’re unsure of the gender of the baby, default to a generic phrase like “little one” or “little baby”
Lastly, while it may be tempting to give unsolicited parenting advice – refrain from doing so in a baby shower card.
Baby Shower Card Tips and Tricks
Now that we’ve covered all there is to baby shower card messages, here are our top tips and tricks to
Choose a card that best reflects the parents-to-be. If you know the theme of the baby shower,try to match the theme the best you can!
If you can’t be there in person, send the card a few days before the baby shower so it arrives on time.
Let your words come from the heart and make sure to express your excitement for their new arrival.
Don’t forget to sign off with your name!
Do you write a baby shower card to both parents?
We recommend writing the baby shower card message to whomever is listed on the baby shower invitation.
However, if you know both parents then you could include both on the baby shower card.
What should I write in a baby shower card to a coworker?
If you’re writing a card for a coworker, keep it professional yet personal.
Acknowledge the new chapter they are embarking on and wish them the best in parenting.
You could say “Congratulations on this exciting time! Wishing you all the joys of parenthood as you start this special journey together. ”
Final Thoughts
Sending a baby shower card is a wonderful way to congratulate the parents-to-be on the arrival of their little one.
Make sure to include thoughtful and meaningful messages that express your excitement for them as they embark on this new journey together.
Don’t forget to sign off with your name and best wishes!
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