How to Send Flirty Texts
Flirty texts can be a bit cringeworthy. They are kind of like cringey pick up lines BUT they are so fun!
My best advice would be to rip the bandaid of and get to textin' a cringeworthy flirty message for him is guaranteed to make his (or her) day!
Here are some of the best flirty texts to send a guy (or girl) we came up with. Feel free to mix and match these flirty texts for him examples as you see fit!
Flirty Good Morning Texts For Him
Here are some of our favorite flirty good morning messages & good morning quotes for him:
Good Morning Handsome! Hope you have a fabulous day!
The thought of you makes my morning more bearable.
Sending you a big kiss and smile to make sure your day starts our fabulous!
I was totally never a morning person until I met you!
Wakey Wakey hand of Snakey.
I'm exhausted this morning as I've been dreaming of you all night.
You must be tired because you have been running through my head all morning.
My morning would be better if I was with you! Have a great day!
It may be raining outside but you make every day full of sunshine.
Hurry up and WAKE UP! I miss you.
Love of my life ā it's time to wake up.
Sexy Flirty Texts For Him
As we are a PG site, I have kept these sexy flirty messages for him PG rated.
With that in mind, here are our fav sexy flirty texts for your boyfriend:
Had trouble sleeping last night as I was missing you to snuggle
What outfit should I wear tonight?
Could you beat me at an arm wrestle?
What's the hype with threesomes anyway?
It might be hard but you just gotta try to stop thinking about me.
Flirty I'm thinking about you texts for him
Here are some of the best flirty I'm thinking about you texts for him:
Do you remember when (x)
You really get me.
Missing you!
Iām getting butterflies just thinking about seeing you later.
I can't stop thinking of you.
You're my whole world
How did I get so lucky?!
I was just thinking about you.
Flirty Text Games
If you are bored or have some down time at work here are some of the best flirty text games:
Guess the song or text back the next lyric ā One of you sends a lyric of a song. The other either has to text back what song it is or the next line of the song.
Guess where I'm at ā Give your boyfriend or girlfriend hints (like I spy) and they have to guess where you are currently at. You can make it as flirty or PG rated as you are comfortable with!
Guess what I'm thinking in 20 questions or less ā Name is pretty self explanatory. It can be a pretty fun game to get to know each other!
Would you rather? ā Would you rather this or this?
Flirty Goodnight Texts For Him
Some of the best flirty text messages to send to a guy are some flirty goodnight texts!
Thereās nobody Iād rather go to sleep next to
Sweet dreams cute thing.
It might be dark outside but when I close my eyes I feel light inside my heart. Goodnight.
I'll be dreaming of you.
Get some sleep ā I'll be here when you wake up!
Call me as soon as you wake so I can hear your voice again.
You're always on my mind ā even in my dreams!
Flirty text messages for him
Here are some of the best flirty texts and flirty quotes to send him:
You definitely need to come over. I have all your favs ā Pizza, Beer, and of courseā¦Me!
You are perfect in every way imaginable.
Do you have any room for little old me in that busy schedule of yours?
Do you like my outfit? Itās made of girlfriend material.
I like you more than I like fries. That's saying something!
Funny Flirty text messages for him
Here are some of the best flirty jokes for him:
Does your Dad happen to be Liam Neeson because I'm taken with you.
I'd be happy to be your handbag ā then I'd never have to leave your side.
What did you do, sit in a pile of sugar or something because you have a pretty sweet ass!
You smell like trash! Can I take you out?
Cute Flirty Text Messages For Him
Here are some cute flirty text messages for him. The best flirty texts for your crush!
Come visit my dog. He misses you. And I might tooā¦
I hate people. Youāre the only exception.
Today sucked. I need you to come cheer me up.
You're adorable ā even over text you are the cutest!
Loving, Flirty Sweet texts for him
Here are some loving, flirty, sweet text messages for him:
How do you feel about pineapple on pizza? Is it a yes or a no?
I have some crappy jobs to do today. Will you join me to make them more fun?
What cologne do you wear? Because I am addicted to it.
Flirty Messages for Husband
Looking for some cute flirty messages just to text your hubby? We have you covered:
Hey cute hubs! Thinking about you!
Missing you so much today! Expect some kissin' later.
I could go for one of your kisses right now.
Hey Hunk, thanks for fixing x it made my day.
Flirty Riddles & Jokes to Text Him
Why is Spider Man a bad boyfriend? He's very clingy!
I love you more than coffee. Just don't make me prove it!
What do you think is a boyfriendās idea of honesty in a relationship? Telling you his real name.
Youāve stolen a pizza my heart
Flirty Romantic Texts for Him
Here are some flirty things to text your crush:
You're in my 4AM thoughts.
I'll admit you're on my mind more than just sometimes.
Hey, cutie. =)
Come save me š
Flirty Texts to Get Him Back
Here are some flirty pick up lines to get him back:
Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?
When God made you, he was showing off.
Hot stuff say what?
I had to remove my space bar so I could get closer to you.
Flirty Truth Questions for Him
Here are some of the best Flirty Questions to Text a Guy. These Flirty Questions for Him are too good (and sometimes hilarious to be true)
I was a flower, what kind of flower would I be?
What is something that you think sets me apart from other people?
What famous actress do you think Iām most like?
Do you like my outfit?
What do you think is my favorite food?
Flirty Poems to Text a Guy
Roses are red, violets are blue, no-one is as sweet as you!
If ever we shall perish and become but specks of dust, I hope the wind carries us away to that place you've always loved. ā R.M. Broderick Poetry
I'll plant a row of daisy seeds, In the space below each eye, So they'll remind you of your beauty, When they bloom each time you cry. ā Erin Hanson
Subtle Flirty Texts
Looking for some innocent flirty texts? We have you covered with some of the best:
Are you this cute all the time, or did I just catch you on a really good day?
My cat told me that sheāll give up her spot on my pillow for you.
Iāll give you 3 chances to guess what Iām thinking about right now.
Hey stranger. What are you up to?
Flirty Song Lyrics for Him
Here are some of the best flirty songs to text him:
āThis thing (this thing)/Called love (called love) It cries (like a baby)/In a cradle all night It swings (woo woo)/It jives (woo woo) It shakes all over like a jelly fish/I kinda like it Crazy little thing called loveā ā Queen
āI know you haven't made your mind up yet But I will never do you wrong I've known it from the moment that we met No doubt in my mind where you belongā ā Adele
āI look and stare so deep in your eyes/I touch on you more and more every time When you leave, I'm begging you not to go/Call your name two or three times in a row Such a funny thing for me to try to explain/How I'm feeling and my pride is the one to blame āCause I know I don't understand/Just how your love can do what no one else canā ā Beyonce
You look beautiful today! No I cant see you but you are in my head
You are my sunshine on a rainy day, my better half my saving grace
Good morning beautiful lady!
Hello sunshine!
Flirty I Miss You Texts for Him
I miss your cute face
I miss you in my arms
I miss everything even your BO. That's saying something!
Hey Hottie. I miss you!
Flirty Happy Birthday texts for Him
Looking for flirty lines to text him on his birthday. Here are the best birthday texts for him:
Happy Birthday sweet stuff
Hey Birthday Boy
Don't party too hard without me!
I'm so happy you were born.
Long distance cute flirty texts for him
Are you in a long distance relationship? Here are some Long distance flirty texts including some emoji texts for him.
Can't wait to see you soon š
Looking forward to the next time we are together š
Distance doesn't define us š
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There are plenty of birthday traditions to help you celebrate your partner's big day, like singing happy birthday, blowing out candles, and, of course, presents. There's one tradition you could add to the list, one that will make your partner's birthday different from all the rest. This year, why not try spicing things up by kicking off their day (or night) with a special message to let them know just how much you want them in addition to loving them? Having a few birthday sexts to send your partner handy in your drafts app can really take their special day to the next level ā and will likely result in you getting a very generous, ahem, present from them on their birthday too.
If sexting isn't your usual thing, then coming up with something on the fly can be tricky. No worries, here are some festive and feisty text ideas to help inspire you.
Happy birthday! I can't wait to give you your present tonight. Spoiler itās me.
Hereās a sneak peek at your birthday cakes tonight! [With a booty shot.]
First you blow out the candles. Then I'll blow out yours. š
Happy birthday, babe! I hope you're ready for your birthday spanking tonight. š
I hope you don't get tired of opening gifts today, because there'll be something extra-special for you to unwrap later.
I made you a birthday cake, but I'm not sure what to do with this extra frosting. I'm sure we'll think of something.
Is it true that some things get better with age? I say we find out tonight.
I'm going to give you one kiss for every year old you are. They won't all be on your lips.
Tonight I'm going to make all your birthday wishes come true in the bedroom, so get creative!
I got you a layer cake for your birthday... thatās code for me on top of you. š
I know we have to dress up for dinner, but how about after we both change into our birthday suits?
Here's your first birthday gift. They only get better from here! [Send sexy selfie.]
Just so you know, I'm wearing a party hat in honor of your birthday... and nothing else.
What'd you wish for when you blew out your candles? I hope it was me naked, because that's what you're getting!
How about I serve you breakfast in bed for your birthday? The main course is me.
Now this is how you make sure your partner has a very happy and oh-so-hot birthday this year. It just might become your new favorite birthday tradition.
What could be more romantic than a good old-fashioned love letter? There is something so heartwarming about being able to physically see how your partner feels about you written out. Plus, itās such a lovely keepsake to have tucked away throughout the years to read over again any time you need a reminder of how much you are loved.
A romantic love letter for him can be a part of a grand gesture expression of love or just a sweet reminder to your honey that they are the one for you. Whether youāre looking for sweet love letters for him, sexy love letters for him, or something in between, weāve got some ideas below to get you started. These can work for love letters to your husband or love letters for boyfriends, and even a few might work as love letters for a crush if you tweak it right!
Put pen to paper (or fingertips to keyboard) and express how you really feel with one of these love letters for him!
ā¢ Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Sweet Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Post Fight Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Sexy Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Birthday Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Funny Love Letters for Him
ā¢ Long Distance Love Letters for Him
Sweet Love Letters for Him
Sweet love letter for him ideas will hopefully have your man grinning from ear to ear!My Sweet Love,
I have to tell you, you are always present in my thoughts, but today I just cannot seem to stop thinking of you! You are always so sweet to me and I just want to try to make you feel the way you make me feel every single day.
I try to imagine what life would be like without you, my sweet love, but thatās just such an impossible thought that I canāt. You are too amazing, too perfect for me, I simply canāt even begin to imagine my world without you in it! You have spoiled me with your sweetness and all I can do is hope to be half as sweet back to you as you are to me.
XOXOXOXO,
Me
To The Man Making My Heart Go Wild,
Here I am, writing you a love letter even though I know Iām going to see you soon. I guess this is just a picture-perfect example of how hard you are making me fall for you.
There are so many things about you that I admire and love, like your fun-loving spirit and your gorgeous smile, that I just canāt seem to get out of my head! I suppose there are worse things in life than having someone as incredible like you in my thoughts, right? I just want you to know that since weāve been spending all this time together, youāve made it so I look forward to every single new day because I know you will be in it. Itās cheesy, I know, but itās so true!
With Love,
Me
My Love,
I wonder if you have any idea how much I love you? Well, just in case you donāt quite have the full picture, let me fill you in on a few things. #1 Since we got together, you are basically on my mind every single day, all day. #2 Since the first time you told me you loved me, Iāve been walking around feeling like a helium balloon thatās flying higher and higher into the clouds. #3 When I try to imagine what life would be like without you, I literally cannot because you have become my entire life.
I donāt know if this paints a clear enough picture for you, but I want you to know that every single day, you have my heart. Every single day, I am here for you. Every single day, I am yours.
With Love Always,
Me
Post Fight Love Letters for Him
My Love,
Okay, I know this fight was bad. There are things I said that I wish I could take back, and Iām sure you wish the same. I canāt change the past, but I can tell you right now, from this present moment, that I will make every possible effort to slow down and consider my words more carefully in any future fight we may have.
Itās never my intention to hurt you, so I know that if we ever get into this kind of fight again, Iām going to make a different choice to cool off before I respond so you and I never have to feel this way again. I hope you can trust me with your heart still, just as I will always trust you with mine. Iām not going anywhere, okay?
All My Love,
Me
My Sweet Man,
Disagreements are a part of life, but I know that you and I can handle them. I hope you know that a silly fight like this one will never ever change how I feel about you. You are my guiding star, I need you in my life and that isnāt changing anytime soon.
I hope that we are always able to navigate these kinds of disagreements in a respectful, loving way with each other, and I think that our ability to do that means we can probably make it through just about anything.
Always Yours,
Me
My Love,
I keep going over how we got here. I know that we both had a lot of things that needed to be said for a long time, and saying them was healthy because we canāt address any of our issues if we arenāt willing to talk about them with each other. No person is perfect and no relationship is perfect, but that doesnāt mean we canāt make sure ours is perfectly imperfect!
I want us to be able to talk openly about all this, so if thatās in letters like this one or on the phone or in person, letās lay our cards out on the table and see what weāve got. Iām going to start: you mean the world to me and I donāt want to lose this. Iām here to do what I can to resolve all our issues. Letās be on the same team, okay?
Love Always,
Me
Sexy Love Letters for Him
Is there anything that makes a man smile wider than getting a steamy love letter?Hey Sexy,
I know you know that you are in my thoughts literally every day, but now, youāre in my dreams too! Ummm can I just say that last nightās dream was a little X rated, but you know what? I am 100% not complaining! Basically, youāve got me all turned around, flipped upside down, and Iām hoping for more of that later tonightā¦ either in my dreams or in person.
Hereās to seeing you tonight, either way.
XOXOXO,
Me
My Love,
I cannot get over last night. Everything about last night. The way you looked, the way you sounded, the way you tasted. I canāt get these things out of my head, but I really donāt want to so thatās alright.
Can I just say that I am eagerly awaiting a repeat. I guess you just bring out the naughty in me and I love it!
Your Naughty Love,
Me
Hey There,
I just keep having all these thoughts about you, and I have to tell you, not many of them are PG! You are just such a sexy, sexy man that I canāt resist thinking of you and all the things I want to do with youā¦
So here is my plan: you, me, and a little privacy, TONIGHT. I cannot wait to see you and will be counting down the minutes.
Yours,
Me
Birthday Love Letters for Him
Hey Birthday Boy,
At the risk of sounding stupid cheesy, I am so grateful for you every day, but especially today because today we get to celebrate that you were born ___ years ago! I am so happy to have you in my life and I want you to feel today how special you are to me.
What can I do to make your birthday special? Tell me what I can do to treat you today, Birthday Boy!
All my Love,
Me
Happy Birthday!
On this day, your day, I want you to know that I think you are one of the coolest guys I've ever known. Really and truly, you continue to surprise me each and every day with new ways that you show up for me. I just want to spend today showing up for you in every way that I can!
So buckle up, because today we are celebrating YOU. I can't wait to be with you and celebrate one of my most favorite days of the year: the day that you, my love, were born.
XOXOXO,
Me
Funny Love Letters for Him
To Whom This May Concern,
I am writing today to inform you that I have officially crossed the threshold of no return with you. You have shown me time and time again how absolutely sweet, generous, kind, and thoughtful you are, and I have to say, you have given me no choice but to fall head over heels, hopelessly in love with you.
Due to these previously unforeseen circumstances, I am now compelled to state in writing my current objectives and expectations: I intend to be yours now, tomorrow, and in perpetuity as long as you will have me, and I expect that you will go on being your absolutely marvelous self, and as long as these conditions are met, our contract can continue in good faith to the full satisfaction of both parties involved.
Also, I love you.
Awaiting Your Reply,
Me
To My Sweet Love,
I donāt know how youāre feeling today, but you should be exhausted from running through my dreams ALL night last night! I know itās cheesy, but itās true. I just keep thinking of you and all the fun things we do when weāre togetherā¦ and all the fun things we do when weāre togetherā¦.
Yeah, itās going to be a loooooooong day for me today waiting for you, but youāre worth it. So far, anyway. Iām teasing, of course youāre worth it always!
Yours in Waiting,
Me
Long Distance Love Letters for Him
Hey Love,
How are you? I hope all is well where you are, but I have to tell you that this long distance thing is made even harder by the fact that you are so amazing and I just want you here closer to me! Where you are is very, very lucky to have you, and I hope everyone around you knows that.
I miss you so much each and every day and I canāt wait until we are together again. I love you so much and think of you every day. Take care of yourself for me, okay?
Sending My Love,
Me
For My Love,
I keep a countdown of when I get to see you in person again and I have to tell you, there are days when Iām sure time is literally slowing down. How else can we possibly explain how long this time apart feels? When we are together, time just flies by. When we are apart, it ~ s l o w s ~ to an absolute crawl.
None of that really matters though, because no matter what, Iām here waiting for you. You are worth the wait, always, so I guess Iāll just try to buck up and stand strong until Iām back in your arms again. I love you!
Your Long Distance Love,
Me
There are so many sweet ways to express our love for each other, but writing it all out in an old-fashioned love letter is probably one of the best ways to show him you care. It doesn't have to be on paper either, you can send a digital love letter, too, but when it comes to keepsakes of love, a folder of loved letters saved to the desktop maybe doesn't hit the same way a physical love letter tucked away in a special spot in your room does.
Either way, be true to your heart and true to your relationship and speak your own truth, using these love letter templates as your guide and you're sure to have the perfect love letter for him.
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Amy Hartle is the co-founder and owner of Two Drifters, where she blogs about romantic and couples travel, relationships, honeymoons, and more. With a Master's in English and a BA in Musical Theatre, Amy loves to write quality content as well as to entertain, and she hopes to do a bit of both here on the blog! Amy is happily married to her husband Nathan, and when not working on their sites, Amy & Nathan can be found cuddling, reading, and enjoying delicious lattes.