What to Write in a Baby Shower Card
Before delving into specific ideas for the text, here are some factors to consider as you think about what to include in the baby shower card:
Simple Baby Shower Card Messages
If you’re not a wordsmith and just want to write something simple and sweet in the baby shower card, or you’re not super close to the mom-to-be, here are some messages to consider:
"I’m so happy for you."
"I can’t wait to meet your baby."
"Wishing both you and your new baby all the best."
"Your little family is about to get bigger and cuter."
"Wishing you moments of joy with your new little baby."
Baby Shower Card Messages Focusing on the Gift
Since a baby shower involves showering the mom-to-be with gifts as well as love and support, you may consider mentioning the gift you've chosen in your baby shower card message. Here are some ideas:
"Wrapping your gift almost made me keel over with cuteness overload. Just giving you a warning!"
"I’m overjoyed to shower you with this special gift I know you’ll love."
"When I was raising my little ones, I couldn’t survive without this item. I think you’ll find it valuable too."
"So happy to be attending your baby shower, and excited to be helping you load up on some goodies for the baby!"
Funny Baby Shower Card Messages
Being a parent can be a challenging job, and sometimes it’s nice to just have a laugh about it. If you’re absolutely sure the recipient of your baby shower card appreciates your style of humor, try one of these messages:
"Hope you have a nice baby!"
"In just a few months you’ll become a stain removal expert!"
"Say hello to your bundle of joy, and goodbye to sleeping in ever again."
"Thanks in advance for naming the baby after me!"
"Congratulations on being so creative! Can’t wait to see your latest project!"
"Don’t worry. After they turn 18, you can kick them out!"
"I can’t wait to see who the baby resembles more!"
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Boy
If you know the mom-to-be is having a baby boy, you could choose one of these messages for the baby shower card:
"Oh boy! We can’t wait to meet your little guy."
"We hope your little boy is just as handsome as his dad."
"Snips and snails, and puppy dogs' tails — get ready for boyhood!"
"Your little boy is lucky to have two amazing parents who love him. Congratulations!"
"Here’s to lots of fun and joy with your little boy!"
"May your baby boy bring you loads of joy and troublemaking."
"It’s beautiful seeing your family grow. Cheers to a baby boy."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Girl
If you know the mom-to-be is have a little girl, here are some sweet wishes you can include in the baby shower card:
"Here’s to a bubbly baby girl to love and spoil. Congratulations!"
"Sugar and spice. May your new baby girl bring you everything nice!
"We’re all tickled pink to hear you’re having a baby girl. Congratulations!"
"Little girls grow up so fast. One minute you’re dressing her in princess outfits, and the next minute she’s trying on bridal gowns. Enjoy every minute."
"We hope your little girl will be beautiful inside and out, just like her mother."
"May your pink bundle be showered with everything splendid."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for Twins
If the mom-to-be has revealed she’s having twins or triplets (or even more), you could acknowledge this in the card. Here are some ideas of what to say:
"Double the baby, double the excitement, and double the trouble!"
"Sometimes the best things come in pairs."
"One baby is special, but two babies are super special."
"Now you have two reasons to smile!"
"Cheers to your babies!"
"Wishing you double the congratulations."
"Could there be anything better than two babies? Oh, maybe three!"
"Let me know if you need help counting all those fingers and toes."
"We can’t wait to see double the cuteness."
"Now you can look forward to four arms hugging you!"
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Close Friend
If you’re a close friend or relative of the mom-to-be and would like to send a personal message of support, here are some ideas:
"Congratulations on your baby’s arrival! I know that you’ll be a terrific mom."
"From one mother to another, the moment you set eyes on your little one, you’ll be smitten forever."
"The unconditional love you’ll feel for your new baby will be something you’ve never felt before."
"After reading books and articles on motherhood, you’ll think you’ve prepared for everything, but the best lessons come with time — and I’ll be there for you whenever you need me."
"Congratulations! Mommyhood looks so good on you."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card From Grandparents
If you’re one of the grandparents-to-be, you may have something special in mind for your message, especially if the mom-to-be is your daughter. Here are some phrases for welcoming a new grandson or granddaughter:
"We are overjoyed to welcome our baby’s very own baby into the world."
"Don’t you worry — we’ve babyproofed the house and have been practicing singing lullabies. Grandparenthood, here we come!"
"Babies don’t come with instruction manuals. But that’s what grandparents are for!"
"Grandbabies are always welcome in our home!"
"Remember, you can’t return them when they misbehave, but you can always drop them off with us!"
The Bottom Line
Composing the perfect message for a baby shower card won’t seem difficult once you start, especially if you think about the relationship you have with the mom-to-be and/or the dad-to-be. Also, if you have any details about whether the mom-to-be is having a boy or girl, these can provide inspiration for the message. Don’t be afraid to craft a truly personalized message, adding a funny story, a personal anecdote, something positive about the mom-to-be, or a unique insight from your own experience as a parent. This time can be both exciting and scary for new parents — and a little humor or a kind message of encouragement may mean a lot to them. If you want to call attention to a special gift you’ve purchased, feel free to tailor your message to include that in the baby shower card. If you’re still hunting for a present, check out our massive list of great baby shower gift ideas.
How to Say "Happy Birthday" in Russian
You can say "happy birthday" in Russian in several ways:
С днем рождения! (S dnyom rozhdeniya!) – Happy birthday! In this example, "день рождения" (den’ rozhdeniya) means "the day of birth."
Поздравляю тебя/Вас с днем рождения! (Pozdravlyaiu tebya/Vas s dnyom rozhdeniya!) – I congratulate you on your day of birth! Note that we use "Вас" (Vas – you) in formal situations with people we don’t know well or with older people.
The typical answer is "спасибо" (spasibo – thanks) or "большое спасибо" (bol’shoe spasibo – thank you very much).
How to Wish Someone Happy Holidays in Russian
To wish someone a happy New Year, we say,
С новым годом! (S Novym godom!) – Happy New Year!
You can add the word "поздравляю" (pozdravlyaiu – congratulations) as well:
Поздравляю тебя/Вас с Новым годом! (Pozdravlyaiu tebya/Vas s Novym godom!) – I wish you a happy New Year!
To wish someone merry Christmas, we say
С рождеством! (Srozhdestvom!)
Счастливого рождества! (Schastlivogo rozhdestva!)
Both have the same meaning: "Merry Christmas!"
In Russia, Christmas comes after New Year, with people celebrating it on January 7, and it is not as important a holiday as New Year.
How to Congratulate People in Russian for Other Reasons
You can congratulate someone having a wedding anniversary by saying
С годовщиной свадьбы! (S godovshchinoi svad’by!) – Happy wedding anniversary!
If someone has just become a parent, say
С рождением дочери! (S rozhdeniem docheri!) – Congratulations on the birth of you daughter!
С рождением сына! (S rozhdeniem syna!) – Congratulations on the birth of you son!
Поздравляю Вас с рождением ребенка. (Pozdravlyaiu Vas s rozhdeniem rebyonka!) – Congratulations on the birth of you baby!
If your colleague has been promoted, congratulate him by saying
С повышением! (S povysheniem!) – Congratulations on the promotion.
Поздравляю Вас с повышением. (Pozdravlyaiu Vas s povysheniem.) – Congratulations on the promotion.
As you can see, in most cases Russians omit the word "поздравляю" (pozdravlyaiu – congratulate) and simply say the rest of the sentence.
Sharing Good Wishes in Russian
If you ever visit a Russian banya, you might hear
С легким паром! (S lyogkim parom!) – Enjoy your steam!
Passing an exam is always stressful, that’s why students usually tell each other before an exam,
Ни пуха ни пера! (Ni pukha ni pera) – Break a leg!
This is a traditional phrase that came from hunters who were afraid to wish each other luck. Instead, they would say, "Not a bit of down, nor a single feather," hoping that evil spirits would hear that and not interfere with their hunting.
The traditional reply to being wished luck is "К черту!" (K chyorty). The literal translation is "Go to hell," but it means "thank you."
To wish someone luck, say "Удачи" (Udachi), which simply means "Good luck."
Try to remember some of these expressions and use them whenever the situation demands it. To learn more about Russian language and vocabulary, learn the Russian language from home with a native speaker.
At Bedford Commons OB-GYN, we understand that the birth of your child will be one of the most special and memorable days of your family’s life. We want to make the natural process of birth as safe as possible for you and your baby. We will talk to you and your support people if any concerns arise or if any interventions are recommended. Together we hope to achieve a wonderful experience with a healthy mother and baby as you start your journey into parenthood.
Complete the form below and provide to your doctor at Bedford Commons OB-GYN.
Birth plans sometimes have a negative reputation among medical professionals. But especially for perinatal hospice deliveries, a birth plan can also benefit your care team in important ways. A birth plan offers a format for discussion and education about the birth process (which doesn't always unfold according to plan) and your baby's condition. It ensures that all parties have similar information. A written document gives all of you a map to follow together to make your time with your baby as close to what you are envisioning as possible. It is essential to work in partnership with your caregivers to confirm that your plan is workable, to revise it if necessary, and to ensure that any special arrangements can be made. Also, be concise; brevity makes your birth plan easier for busy medical professionals to read — and to follow.
Your birth and care plan can be as unique as your baby is, but most plans need to address some similar topics. A valuable way to start is to state your overriding wishes for your baby's life. For example, one family’s statement was, “Our overriding wish is that our son’s brief life be free of pain and filled with love.” This mission statement helps you and your caregivers keep your goals in mind, even if you need to accommodate unexpected detours during your labor or in your baby’s condition.
A perinatal hospice/palliative care birth plan often includes:
Essential information
Your baby's name (if you have already chosen one)
The parents' names
Contact numbers for your obstetrician, pediatrician, clergyperson, or other key caregivers
Wishes for labor and delivery
Caesarean birth vs. vaginal birth
Fetal heart monitoring during labor
Comfort measures and pain relief for the mother
Cutting the umbilical cord
Support people you wish to be present
Wishes for your time with your baby
You may want to include wishes regarding:
Family and friends
Other siblings
Photographs and video recording
Keepsakes such as footprints, handprints, locks of hair, crib card, ID bands
Bathing your baby
Spiritual rituals
Being with your baby during and after death
Care preferences
If medical intervention for your baby is possible and you have already reached some decisions, these should be specified in your plan. Possible topics to discuss with your caregivers include:
Essential newborn care such as warmth, comfort, and feeding
Delaying routine procedures or providing them while your baby is in a parent's arms
Medications and pain relief for baby (if needed)
Additional testing (if needed)
Plans for if your baby lives
Taking your baby home
Special care tailored to your baby's condition
Hospice assistance at home (if needed)
Plans for if your baby dies
Information about the dying process and ensuring that your baby is comfortable
Keeping your baby with you if your baby dies in the hospital
Information about whom to notify if your baby dies at home
Autopsy or other testing (if needed or desired)
After-death care for the baby's body, such as funeral home information or details about transporting your baby's body yourself if you wish.
Your birth plan is a way to share your decisions and hopes with your caregivers, who can use it as a guide as your baby's birth unfolds. A birth plan is not set in stone; you can modify it and be flexible if new circumstances arise or if your wishes change. You can let your baby lead you.